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The #1 Trick To Giving The Perfect Valentine’s Day Gift

It’s February which means Valentine’s Day is less than two weeks away!

*quickly Googles “perfect valentine’s day present”*

Who else spends hours stressing over the perfect gift? Maybe you find it, maybe you don’t, but either way, when your partner/friend/family member is opening it, you stare them down like a crazy person waiting for their reaction. Y’all please say that is not just me.

When Ty and I first started dating, I would seriously stress over gifts. Okay okay, I still do, but I have gotten so much better at this gift-giving thing. Want to know why? Because of an online quiz. Not just any silly Buzzfeed quiz, it was the Five Love Languages quiz. The premise behind this assessment is that everyone has a primary way of showing and wanting to be loved. By answering a series of questions, you and your partner can understand the way each other wants to be loved. What better way to celebrate a holiday focused on love than knowing the love language your partner speaks?

The Five Love Languages are:

  1. Quality Time
  2. Acts of Service
  3. Words of Affirmation
  4. Receiving Gifts
  5. Physical Touch

The quiz doesn’t take very long, but in case you’re pressed for time, we’ve compiled this handy guide to help decode your partner’s primary love language—and make gift giving a lot easier this year!

Quality Time: This type of person cherishes your time and attention above all else. If your partner’s love language is quality time, put down your phone and give them your full attention. This is Tyler’s love language, so I have learned that his favorite gifts are experiences that we can share together.

Gift Ideas For Quality Time Love Language:

  • Tickets to an event you can go to together
  • A distraction-free day together

Acts of Service: Does your partner jump for joy when you do them a favor? Maybe you went out of your way and checked something off their to-do list and they couldn’t thank you enough. If your partner’s love language is acts of service, they admire helpful acts and see them as signs of love.

Gift Ideas For Acts Of Service Love Language:

  • Make them breakfast in bed and do the dishes afterward
  • Run the errand they’ve been meaning to do, but haven’t had time for
  • Make a coupon book containing tasks you will do for them

Words of Affirmation: Some people need to hear how you feel about them because they value words and take them to heart. This is my first love language. Because Tyler knows this, it allows him to focus on verbal communication to express his love in a way that I value. He’s gotten so much better at it since we took the quiz.

Gift Ideas For Words Of Affirmation Love Language:

  • Write them a meaningful letter
  • If you get a gift, don’t forget the card (with more than just your signature)
  • Write a poem
  • Pro Tip: If you’re struggling with inspiration, check out this great post from FTD. In it, they compiled a list of 70 love messages to help you clearly express how much you care. Plus, they photographed flowers in the shape of inspiring words like “love” and “admire” that can easily be used as desktop or phone backgrounds or printed off as cards. We used the photos in this post and think they are gorgeous…your sweetheart will, as well!

Receiving Gifts: Almost everyone likes presents, but if your partner’s love language is receiving gifts, they appreciate the thoughtfulness and effort behind each gift. The gifts don’t have to be big and expensive. Sometimes, it’s the little surprises and gifts that show your partner the most love.

Gift Ideas:

  • Get them something they haven’t stopped talking about for months
  • Purchase something they would love, but never buy for themselves
  • Never forget the card!

Physical Touch: Does your partner love to snuggle up? Their love language may be physical touch. Being physically close to them is the best way to show love. Whether that is cuddling up to watch a movie, or holding their hand as you walk down the street, people who respond best to physical touch adore being close together.

Gift Ideas

  • A new warm blanket
  • A romantic night just for the two of you

The 5 Love Languages quiz is a great way to understand your partner on a deeper level. It also can apply to anyone in your life. By focusing on your partner’s love language, you can give them a genuine gift (or experience) that they will truly appreciate. What are you waiting for? Grab your partner, click this link, and take the 5 Love Languages Quiz today! 

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12 Comments

  • Reply
    Jenn Loyd Life + Style
    February 2, 2018 at 7:39 am

    This is so cool! I did the 5 love languages years ago and it’s awesome. I love how you gave ideas for each love language

    • Reply
      shayneandty
      February 2, 2018 at 8:11 am

      Hi Jenn! Thank you so much! Isn’t it crazy how spot on the five love languages are? It really helps to better understand yourself and other people once you take it.

  • Reply
    Karly Edwards
    February 2, 2018 at 7:56 am

    Great ideas! Exactly right, we all appreciate different things in life so the perfect gift depends on what they really value as a person. Thanks for the insights, maybe this year I’ll be spot on!

    • Reply
      shayneandty
      February 2, 2018 at 8:10 am

      Hi Karly! Thank you for your thoughtful comment. We hope you can find a great gift this year!

  • Reply
    Julia Dent
    February 2, 2018 at 10:28 am

    My boyfriend and I have different love languages, so this is very helpful!

    • Reply
      shayneandty
      February 2, 2018 at 10:42 am

      Hi Julia! I am so glad this helped. Ty and I have veeeeeerrrryyyy different love languages. It was so eye opening when we figured that out.

  • Reply
    Miranda Fox
    February 2, 2018 at 10:40 am

    Such a great post! It’s a great idea to use each person’s love language to choose their Valentine’s Day gift! You provided some nice ideas! Thanks!

    • Reply
      shayneandty
      February 2, 2018 at 10:42 am

      Hi Miranda! Thank you for your sweet words! We hope this post gave you some inspiration. 🙂

  • Reply
    Darla Slade
    February 4, 2018 at 12:24 pm

    I like how you broke these ideas up into different personality types! Everyone has a different style and this really helps me think of some great ideas!

    • Reply
      shayneandty
      February 4, 2018 at 12:39 pm

      Hi Darla! Thank you for your sweet comment. We are so glad this is helpful!!

  • Reply
    Venassa
    February 6, 2018 at 8:28 am

    I took the quiz a couple of years ago and it’s really an eye opener. I should really reintroduce the quiz to my husband. We could both use reminders. Knowing this info about your partner can make thinfs so much simpler.

    • Reply
      shayneandty
      February 6, 2018 at 8:52 am

      Hi Venassa! That’s awesome that you’ve already taken the quiz. We’ve seen a lot of benefits since taking the quiz together. I’m sure your husband would love to know what your love language is, too! Makes “reading your mind” a little easier! 🙂 Thanks for your comment!

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